Great story: Got a email from a case worker who has worked with his client for 2 years. The client had worked very hard according to her case worker, dealing with domestic violence issues and personal therapy. She had suffered continual assault by her husband who she is now divorced. She, after 4 years of homelessness and residential treatment, got her own apartment and had no furniture since moving in two months prior. Her two boys were removed 3 years ago from her and placed in foster care. She became pregnant while in treatment. When she gave birth, CPS came in and took the child from her. The 4 month old baby died in the care of a foster family. He was smothered by pillows in a big bed as his crib was being used for trash and random stuff. The police noted extreme negligence along with a very dirty home. She was not contacted for 28 hours after her baby’s death. Her heart was completely broken as she never got to be his mommy, hear him laugh or see him smile. The guilt and shame is unsurmountable even though her recovery, and good standing in the program is well known to all involved in the case. She was working very hard to get him and the other two boys back. She was overwhelmed with grief and cried out to the Lord for help. She felt obsessed and distressed with all the unknowns. The night she cried out to God in desperate need, God gave her a dream that changed her. She dreamt she was holding the baby, looking into his eyes, telling him of her love. She heard him laugh. She held him and twirled him around and around laughing and enjoying her baby. The dream was more real than the news of his death. She was changed in the twinkling of an eye. She woke up released of the heaviness and was able to surrender. She now wants to make a difference in the system for mom’s in her situation and for CPS to comply to certain standards regarding assessing the recovery and progress of individuals who have lost their children. Bridge of Hope was able to fill her one bedroom apartment. The boys 13 and 11, will be reuniting with her in February and cannot wait to sleep on the hide a bed we brought her. On her wall was the only piece of furniture she had when we arrived. It was a shelf filled with pictures of her baby and the urn with his ashes. It is her special place to reflect and remember this precious life and the goals she has made to make a difference.
2011 was a excellent year at Bridge of Hope. We continued to grow and meet the many demands of individuals and agencies from San Ysidro to Oceanside. We are now working with about 20 different local agencies (shelters and programs) along with Domestic Violence safe houses, Child Protective Services and newly arriving refugees. We also work closely with the many refugee families that have been here for years facing extreme difficulty due to the economic crisis.
*An average of 1500 families are given groceries each month through our food distributions and 211 emergency food program
*2-4 deliveries of furniture/ home necessities each week
*Bridge of Hope Saturday outreaches continue each month- 2nd and 4th Saturdays 9-12
*We moved from a 1800 sq. ft. building to a 3000 sq. ft. building on a 10,000 sq. ft. lot. Big thanks to Richard Alleway and his construction crew, Bob Hasson, Jeff Andersen, Brew Briggs, Max Bauer and Rambo for all your hard work to make this building our new home.
*2nd and 4th Wednesdays store is open to case workers and their clients to pick out clothing they need for their families. This is also a excellent ministry time.
* Christ centered Easter basket give away and back pack/school supply give away to the community- Thanks to Melissa Drake and her family and friends who made it happen.
*Gave away 120 Christmas trees (thanks to Coastline Community Church) 25 families were adopted by families bringing an over the top Christmas to many! Also lots of toys collected and given to parents to give to their children! Thanks to all of you who gave of your time and generous gifts!
GOALS for 2012
*Youth outreach beginning in April- weekly outreach to the local youth. Games, food, music and Bible Study
* Classes starting upstairs in our classroom (Bible Study, Financial Literacy, Resume and Interview classes, Accent reduction, Health and Nutrition and Emergency Preparedness)
*Outdoor Worship events-local worship teams come and bring worship to City Heights right there in Bridge of Hope’s yard.
*Have a North County location for furniture storage and delivery to our Oceanside/Escondido clients.
Thank you for your continual support and prayers. We need your prayers as we reach out to the youth and bring worship to our city. We are so thankful for you. If you could hear the gratitude we hear each day from those we serve, it would bless your heart.
Sheri and Brew Briggs
